A lot of what we do here on Relation Termination is meant to make people really think about their dating habits and choices. Hopefully we can help prevent some people from walking around with the scent of shame, total regret, and failure.
Women can really change society based on their mating habits alone. I know a lot of women out there wouldn’t agree with that, but the truth about men is their motivation to be successful, artists, musicians, or anything else is because men view those roles as a means to impress women into boning them. In this day and age, douchebags seem to be rising at a rapid rate. That’s because men view that behavior as the most successful at attracting women. So I hope that women will stop mating with and reproducing these foul creatures.
Females hold the POWER of choice when it comes to sex in humans, and all other mammals for that matter, where the female role makes the greatest investment in producing and raising children (especially since a lot of baby daddies duece after positive pregnancy tests only to be caught by Maury). Sex is a basic human need, women who are confident in their ability to attract a mate and aware of their POWER of choice don’t tend to feel the need to seek sex. Men however are driven to explore their options in every direction possible and will literally turn over every stone they find if you told them there was some ready and willing vagina hiding under rocks. This is why an attractive woman is constantly approached or contacted by men, even if the approach seems to be just a friendly approach.
Men are also biologically built to assume ANY attention from a woman, even if it’s purely platonic, means that the woman is attracted to him OR has made the CHOICE to keep him an option for a potential mate. Women actually see the opposite in a platonic relationship, and feel that men are equally not attracted as they are. Both sides mutually assume or perceive their interaction with each other from their own perspective, not what the reality is. Men are also more likely to make a move than women are regardless of her relationship status, and women tend to respect relationships more. Because all these hungry guys out there are hunting for that basic sexual need, they deal with a lot of rejection. So when a woman does flirt with a man, it does something funny to him, and he becomes attracted to that woman. Trust me, as a man and a bartender, I’ve seen a lot of guys go home with women they normally wouldn’t just because she initiated the sexual contact.
I’ll go ahead and apologize for the misogynistic title of this blog now… But let’s be real, you wouldn’t have started reading this otherwise. With all the previous information in mind, our current mating dance is asinine. The world would be a better place if women were the ones totally in charge of selection and making the first approach. I know most women are deathly afraid of rejection, but lets face reality… Men can’t refuse a woman’s advances anyway. Most men would tend to simply say they are not available than brutally reject a woman. The POWER of SELECTION is a power, and it’s WOMEN’S power. I think there’s a lot of things if society changed, would drastically improve the quality of the human population.
If it were socially unacceptable for men to approach women in the first place, there would be less creepy guys hitting on women and more flirting from a safe distance. Wouldn’t it be nice to be out in public and not have to deal with 100 idiotic men saying ridiculous things if you’re a woman? Or to have your social network’s emails reduced to only the ones that matter? The way we do things now, men are busy trolling for pu$$y and women have to put up with being annoyed. Men wouldn’t need to walk around lying to impress women, they could relax and be themselves for a change. Removing the ability for men to just walk around trying to conquer women would also take away the player’s power.
Since women tend to respect relationships more than men do, the responsibility should be theirs. Those women should also take their time assessing their selection. When a man is focusing his attention and investing time committed to forming a relationship with his best or only option for a mate, he will be put in a position to get to know a woman for who she is then develop a deeper and stronger attraction to her. This kind of already puts him in a relationship mode because there is a commitment and investment of time there, he worked hard to get the gift of being allowed to enter her body. Plus when a man has to wait, he views the woman as someone more trust worthy and valuable, even if she really isn’t or has a sloppy… um… past.
Since society is all about not caving in to our animal urges and making great technological advances, stop sleeping with that douche that hit on you for purely superficial reasons like his stupid hat, or his swag… I’m urging women to get in touch with their self worth, and to realize that their love is worth something. A lot of women that have been run through, sleep around, or give it away on the first night feel that their only value is for sex, and that’s sad. In addition, sluts typically get made fun of because they’re basically bullies. Since women do have this power over men, it’s comparable to a buff dude getting on a short bus and beating up the passengers just because he feels powerful… No one likes someone who abuses power.
Sex being cheap and easy to get is not fulfilling, and it is not helping our society out at all. Here’s a couple links to check out that have some really good scientific research: